[Guy N'wah]

Pandoricai said:

/> As soon as I get hungry it's painful, skipping out normal hunger, then whenever I eat I feel sick! What is up with that -.- ›››

There are all manner of things that can cause this kind of gastrointestinal upset, from being stressed out or low blood sugar to reflux to gastritis or gallstones. If it doesn't go away on its own, you will need to see a doctor.

Also (sorry, there's no way that I can write this without sounding creepy) make sure you are not pregnant.

[Pandoricai]

Hm thanks guys, I'll wait it out for a bit

[gregski]

Or it could be dyspepsia. Anyway wait a few days and if it doesn't go away definitely visit your doctor.

[slimgrin]

Or one of these things:

[Squall D. Leonhart]

An Alien ..better to call a Witcher or a Paladin
Although Aliens' blood was a strong acid and the battle would be difficult

Just joking, I hope that you will feel fine soon

[Squall D. Leonhart]

Today there are only wonderful songs during body building: Poison by Alice Cooper, Nothing Else Matter by Metallica, November Rain by Guns N' Roses, The Sound of Silence..

[Costin Moroianu]

That right there slimgrin is a large throbbing penis />/>

Anyway serious question, what does one do when he meets someone online and then spends some time to get to know her, have some pretty good conversations and enjoys himself with that person ( and this person enjoys herself with ) but you are limited by the fact that you are in two different countries?

Very silly I know, but well I am a serious person and very brutal as a realist and pragmatist with everything but emotional relationships is where I turn in this timid white rabbit whose rooted in place due to fear. It feels like my IQ drops by 100 in such situations.

[▫ Dona ▫]

Meet her. No matter how many hours you poured into this online thing, you'll never know if you 'click' with someone until you spend some time together in the real world. Worst case scenario, you realise that's not it and part ways.

Not much is going to change if the situation stays the same, so.

[*Tommy*]

Costin Moroianu said:

Anyway serious question, what does one do when he meets someone online and then spends some time to get to know her, have some pretty good conversations and enjoys himself with that person ( and this person enjoys herself with ) but you are limited by the fact that you are in two different countries?

Very silly I know, but well I am a serious person and very brutal as a realist and pragmatist with everything but emotional relationships is where I turn in this timid white rabbit whose rooted in place due to fear. It feels like my IQ drops by 100 in such situations. ›››

At worst you go your separate ways .
At best you might ask Kindo and Delightful McCoy

[Kudos]

Costin Moroianu said:

That right there slimgrin is a large throbbing penis ›››

I'd consider a visit to the doctor first though

[Guy N'wah]

I'm going to second Dona. You go. If you go, all you're putting at risk is the cost of travel. If you don't go, you'll get nothing but regrets.

Put your effort into arranging a time and place to meet where you will both be comfortable and feel like talking. But no more effort into agonizing over whether to do this.

Sometimes the hardest thing to realize about other people is they want to like you, not judge you. All you have to do is give them the chance.

[Costin Moroianu]

Thanks for the advice, I was talking about that with her so I'll arrange it.

I hope for the best, thanks guys for the advice.

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Sometimes the hardest thing to realize about other people is they want to like you, not judge you. All you have to do is give them the chance.

Considering all the abuse I've suffered as a kid both in school and from my parents yeah it's difficult for me to accept this.

[Guy N'wah]

Costin Moroianu said:

Considering all the abuse I've suffered as a kid both in school and from my parents yeah it's difficult for me to accept this. ›››

I'm sorry; I didn't mean to sound flippant. It can be very difficult. But it is very liberating.

[Costin Moroianu]

Don't worry you didn't I understand and even agree with it I just find it difficult to accept that.

[.Volsung.]

Costin: 7 years ago I met some girl I liked, online. We chatted for a while, then voice chatted, and eventually we were each other's best friend. We had never met in person, we were literally THOUSANDS of miles apart. At some point we decided we simply had to meet in person, and so with great monetary effort and nervousness we did it. We liked each other so much we kept visiting as often as we could. In 2011 we got married, and now we're both extremely happy with our decision. But we had to find out.

[Costin Moroianu]

Volsung thank you and I'll keep that advice to heart and I wish you the best.

[Squall D. Leonhart]

Volsung, it's wonderful
And Costin, I think exactly the same: if you honestly love her and if she wants meet you, find the brave and do your best to meet her

edit: I'd honestly go, if the girl that I love wanted to meet me

[.Volsung.]

You're welcome. Remember: you live only once (as far as I know!), you have to make the most of it.

And apparently it has been 9 years, not 7. Damn, time files! Just FYI, we were about 7000 Km (approx. 4350 miles) away from each other. And we made it work.

[cmdr_silverbolt]

@ Costin: whatever you do, be careful and don't end up losing a kidney Best of luck.

[▫ Dona ▫]

"Oh, let me just check what [an artist I like] is up to..." one hour later and I'm cackling at some high-profile art drama - it's been rolling out for years now, it seems. It's sad and disheartening every time it happens and people speak out, and I can't help but feel artists don't have a good online support system they used to have. Or I'm simply not paying enough attention. With all the entertainment industry crap that's been happening, it's hard to be surprised, but it's sad nonetheless.